Look for an RTV silicone that is specifically rated for automotive applications and oil resistance. Many brands offer this, such as Permatex, Fel-Pro, and others. The specific product name may vary, but look for descriptions like "Ultra Black RTV Silicone Gasket Maker," "High-Temperature RTV Silicone Sealant," or similar. Read the product label carefully to ensure it meets the requirements for differential applications.
Important Note: Always clean the mating surfaces of the differential cover and the differential housing thoroughly before applying the RTV silicone. Remove any old gasket material completely. A properly cleaned surface ensures a good seal.