To find it, you'll need to:
1. Consult your owner's manual: This is the first and best place to look. The manual should have a diagram of the fuse box and relay locations.
2. Locate the underhood fuse box: This is typically a large black box under the hood, often near the battery.
3. Open the fuse box cover: Look carefully at the relays inside. Many relays are the same size and appearance.
4. Look for a relay labeled "Horn" or with a horn symbol: The symbol is often a picture of a horn or a stylized sound wave.
5. If not labeled: You might need to test the relays with a multimeter (if you're comfortable doing so) to identify the one controlling the horn circuit, or consult a wiring diagram specific to your van's year and options. A wiring diagram can usually be found online or through a repair manual.
Important Note: If you're not comfortable working with car electrical systems, it's best to take your van to a qualified mechanic to diagnose and repair any horn issues. Incorrectly working with relays can lead to further electrical problems.