Without the diagram, pinpointing the exact relay is difficult. You might find it labeled as a "fuel system" relay or possibly integrated within a larger relay module. The best approach is to:
1. Locate your owner's manual: This is the most reliable source for the exact location and diagram.
2. Use a multimeter: If you're comfortable with basic electrical work, you can test relays to determine which one controls the fuel pump circuit. This requires knowledge of automotive electrical systems.
3. Consult a repair manual: A Haynes or Chilton repair manual for your year and model will have detailed diagrams and procedures.
Attempting to find the relay without these resources could lead to accidentally identifying and tampering with the wrong components, which could cause further issues.