To find the relevant fuses and circuits, you'll need to consult your 1997 Ford Expedition's owner's manual or a wiring diagram. The manual will show you the location of the underhood fuse box and the layout of the fuses and relays. Look for fuses related to the PCM, engine control, or the ignition system. These are the components that provide power and control to the PCM.
In short: There isn't a "PCM relay". You need to check the fuses and wiring related to the PCM's power supply. Using a wiring diagram specific to your year and model Expedition will be crucial to troubleshoot any issues with PCM power.