Things that can damage the alternator while jump starting another car include:
* Using the wrong type of cables. If the cables are too thin, they won't be able to carry the necessary current and could overheat.
* Connecting the cables incorrectly. This can cause a short circuit and damage the alternator.
* Starting the car with the engine running. This puts a strain on the alternator as it tries to charge both batteries.
* Running the car at a high RPM. This can also put a strain on the alternator.
If you're concerned about damaging your alternator, it's best to have a professional jump start the car for you.