Problems with starting are more likely to be related to:
* The BCM itself: A faulty BCM can prevent the signal to the starter solenoid.
* The starter solenoid: This is the part directly on the starter motor that engages the motor.
* The starter motor: The motor itself could be failing.
* Wiring: A break or short in the wiring between the BCM and the starter solenoid.
* Ignition switch: A faulty ignition switch could be preventing power from reaching the BCM or the starter solenoid.
* Neutral Safety Switch: If the vehicle doesn't believe the transmission is in park or neutral, it won't start.
If you're having starting issues, it's best to take it to a mechanic or use an automotive scanner to diagnose the problem rather than looking for a non-existent "starter relay." A scanner can read diagnostic trouble codes (DTCs) to pinpoint the actual cause.