To find it definitively, you should:
1. Consult your owner's manual: This is the best resource. It will have a diagram showing the location of all major components, including the ECM.
2. Look for a large, black rectangular box with numerous wiring harnesses connected to it: This is the most common appearance of the ECM.
3. Check near the air cleaner assembly, often on the driver's side (left side in the US): This is a common location for many GM vehicles of that era.
If you can't find it using these methods, a picture or even a description of your engine's configuration would be helpful to provide a more precise answer. A mechanic specializing in older GM vehicles could also easily identify it.