Some common approaches to finding it:
* Consult your owner's manual: This is the best place to start. It should have a fuse and relay diagram.
* Use a wiring diagram: You can find these online through sites specializing in automotive repair information (some are subscription-based). Search for a wiring diagram specifically for a 1993 Chevy 1500 4.3L.
* Look for a relay with a diagram or description close to the fuel pump: Some relays might have small diagrams on them indicating their function.
* Use a multimeter to test relays: If you have a multimeter and some basic electrical knowledge, you can test the relays in the fuse block to identify the fuel pump relay. Again, a wiring diagram will be crucial here.
Remember to disconnect the negative battery terminal before working with any electrical components in your vehicle.