To find it, you'll need to:
1. Locate the underhood fuse box: This is typically near the battery, often a black plastic box.
2. Consult your owner's manual: This is the *best* resource. It will have a diagram showing the fuse box layout and identify the fuel pump relay.
3. Look for the relay itself: The fuel pump relay is often labeled, but sometimes just numbered. It might be a square or rectangular component that's easily removed. It may also be near other relays related to the engine or ignition.
If your owner's manual is unavailable, you might find a diagram online by searching "[Year] [Make] [Model] underhood fuse box diagram". Many automotive websites and forums have these. However, be cautious as diagrams can vary based on options. The best approach remains using your owner's manual if you can locate it.