To find it, you'll likely need to:
1. Remove the lower dash panel: This usually involves removing some screws and possibly some trim pieces. Consult a repair manual specific to your year and model Silverado for the exact procedure.
2. Look for a relay box or fuse block: The relay will often be in a fuse block or a separate relay box mounted near the HVAC blower motor.
3. Identify the relay: The relay itself may be marked, or you can consult your owner's manual or a wiring diagram to determine which relay controls the blower motor. The diagram will show the relay's location and may indicate its amperage rating.
Important Note: Without a wiring diagram or repair manual specific to your 1995 Chevy Silverado 4x4 extended cab, pinpointing the exact location will be difficult. Using a wiring diagram is highly recommended to avoid damaging other components. You can find these diagrams online (some are free, others require a purchase) or at an auto parts store. A Haynes or Chilton repair manual for your truck would also be very helpful.