To find it, you need to:
1. Consult your owner's manual: This is the best place to start. The manual will have a diagram showing the location of all relays and fuses.
2. Look in the underhood fuse box: This box is usually located under the hood, often near the battery. The cover should have a diagram showing the layout of fuses and relays. Look for a relay labeled "Fuel Pump," "Fuel System," or something similar. Sometimes the label will be less explicit and you might need to consult the diagram.
3. Check the interior fuse panel: If you can't find it under the hood, check the interior fuse panel. This is usually located under the dashboard, often near the steering column or under a panel near the driver's side. Again, look for a diagram and locate the fuel pump relay.
4. Use a multimeter (advanced): If you're comfortable with basic electrical work, you can use a multimeter to test relays. This involves testing for continuity in the relay's coil to determine if it is faulty. Caution: Always disconnect the negative battery cable before working with electrical components.
Important Note: If you're having fuel pump issues, it's *not* necessarily always the relay. It could be a faulty fuel pump, wiring issue, or other problems. Replacing the relay is a cheap and easy troubleshooting step, but it might not solve the problem. If replacing the relay doesn't fix the issue, a professional mechanic should diagnose the problem.