To find the fuel pump relay: Consult your owner's manual (if you have it) or a repair manual specific to your 1992 Ford E350. The relay is usually located in the underhood fuse box or, sometimes, in a separate relay center. Pulling the relay will stop the fuel pump from working. Remember to re-insert the relay once the issue is resolved.
To disconnect the fuel pump's electrical connection: This requires locating the fuel pump (usually in the fuel tank) and disconnecting the wiring harness. This is a more involved process and should only be attempted if you're comfortable working with automotive electrical systems. It is also important to follow appropriate safety measures to avoid fuel leaks and fire hazards.
Warning: Disconnecting the fuel pump should only be done for emergency shut-off situations or if working on the fuel system. Incorrectly disconnecting or reconnecting the fuel pump wiring can lead to safety hazards. If you are not comfortable performing these tasks, it's best to consult a qualified mechanic.