If your high beam indicator light isn't working, the problem is far more likely to be:
* A blown bulb: The simplest and most common cause.
* A faulty headlight switch: The switch itself might be malfunctioning.
* Wiring issue: A break or short in the wiring between the headlight switch and the indicator lamp.
* A bad ground: A poor ground connection can prevent the light from illuminating.
Before assuming a relay is the culprit, check the bulb and wiring first. A wiring diagram specific to your van's year and model would be helpful in troubleshooting. You can often find these online through sites specializing in automotive repair information.