It's most likely located either in:
* The Power Distribution Center (PDC): This is a large fuse and relay box, often found under the hood. It's the most common location for relays.
* Under the dash: Less common, but some relays were sometimes located under the dash in older vehicles.
To find it:
1. Consult your owner's manual: This is your best resource. The manual should have a diagram showing the fuse and relay box layout.
2. Check the Power Distribution Center (PDC): Open the hood and locate the PDC. It's usually a large black box with numerous fuses and relays. Look for a diagram on the inside of the lid or consult a wiring diagram specific to your truck's year and engine. The relay may be labeled, or you might have to use a wiring diagram to trace the fuel pump circuit.
3. Look under the dash: If you can't find it under the hood, carefully inspect the area under the dash, often near the steering column or fuse box.
4. Use a wiring diagram: A wiring diagram specific to your 1988 Dodge Ram 250 will show the exact location of the fuel pump relay and its circuit. You can find these online through sites specializing in automotive repair information (often for a fee), or sometimes at a local auto parts store.
Remember to disconnect the negative battery terminal before working with electrical components to avoid short circuits. If you're not comfortable working on your vehicle's electrical system, it's best to take it to a qualified mechanic.