To find it, you'll likely need to:
1. Consult a wiring diagram: This is the most reliable method. A wiring diagram specific to your 1988 F-150 will show the exact location and identify the solenoid. You can often find these diagrams online (through sites specializing in repair manuals) or in a Haynes or Chilton repair manual for your vehicle.
2. Trace the fuel lines: Follow the fuel lines from the tanks to the engine. The solenoid will be located along this path, likely near the connection point where the lines merge from the two tanks.
3. Look near the fuel pump relay: Fuel system components are often grouped together. The solenoid is electrically controlled, so it's likely close to the fuel pump relay.
Remember to disconnect the negative battery terminal before working on any fuel system components. Fuel is flammable and electrical components can cause sparks. Safety first!