* Low Transmission Fluid: This is the first and easiest thing to check. Low fluid can cause all sorts of shifting problems. Check the fluid level with the engine running and warmed up. If it's low, add the correct type of transmission fluid (consult your owner's manual). However, low fluid is often a symptom of a larger problem (leak).
* Transmission Fluid Condition: Even if the level is correct, the fluid might be old, contaminated, or burned. Dirty fluid will not lubricate properly, leading to harsh shifting and potential internal damage. A fluid and filter change is a good preventative maintenance item, even if the fluid level is okay.
* Worn Clutch Pack (Automatic Transmission): Automatic transmissions use clutch packs to engage different gears. Wear and tear on these packs can cause slipping and hard shifting, especially as the transmission warms up. This is a major repair.
* Worn or Damaged Transmission Components: Internal transmission components like bands, solenoids, valve body, or planetary gears can wear out, causing shifting problems. This requires a professional diagnosis and likely a rebuild or replacement.
* Shift Linkage/Cables (Manual Transmission): If it's a manual transmission, the linkage or cables that connect the shifter to the transmission could be worn, bent, or misadjusted. This would require inspection and adjustment or replacement.
* Torque Converter (Automatic Transmission): Problems with the torque converter can lead to slippage and harsh shifting. This is another expensive repair.
What to do:
1. Check the transmission fluid level and condition: This is the absolute first step. If the fluid is low, dark brown, smells burnt, or contains metal particles, you have a problem beyond just adding fluid.
2. Consult a mechanic specializing in transmissions: Without a proper diagnostic scan and physical inspection, it's difficult to pinpoint the exact cause. A mechanic can identify the specific problem and give you an accurate repair estimate. Don't attempt major transmission repairs yourself unless you have significant experience.
3. Don't continue driving the van excessively: Driving with a problematic transmission can cause further damage and lead to a much more expensive repair later.
In short, forcing the gears will only worsen the problem. Get it checked by a professional as soon as possible. Ignoring the issue could lead to a complete transmission failure.