To find the relevant relays, locate the underhood fuse and relay box. This box is usually located near the battery, often on the driver's side fender. The owner's manual or a wiring diagram specific to your 1994 Thunderbird 4.6L will show the location of the relay(s) related to the starting system. They might be labeled as ignition relays or engine control relays. You'll likely need the wiring diagram to identify the correct one(s).
Because of the complexity of modern automotive electrical systems, attempting to diagnose or repair the starting system without a wiring diagram and some basic electrical knowledge is strongly discouraged. It's best to consult a repair manual or a qualified mechanic if you're experiencing starting problems.