To be certain, you should:
* Consult your owner's manual: This is the best resource for the exact location in your specific vehicle.
* Look for a large, rectangular black box with numerous connectors: This is the most likely candidate. It may have labels or markings indicating it's the ECM or PCM (Powertrain Control Module, which often functions as the ECM).
* Use a wiring diagram: A wiring diagram for your specific year and model will clearly show the ECM's location.
Don't be afraid to look around thoroughly. It might be partially obscured by other components.